What Love Is …and How It Saved My Marriage

I cry at a lot of weddings now, especially during the vows…for better or for worse…in sickness and in health…for richer or for poorer. I wonder to myself if the two lovesick people standing together have any idea what those vows might mean someday. I remember when I made mine and thought about how I […]

Someday You Will Understand (from the other side of depression)

I have not forgotten what depression feels like. I have not forgotten what it feels like to feel stuck and lost and trapped. I have not forgotten what it feels like to feel like a complete failure, beyond recovery…I have not forgotten how it feels to feel unloved and unlovable…and I have not forgotten what […]